will i have luck in love?

...kristo answers

I have to tell you that this is a very poorly phrased question. I don't mean to berate you...I only mean to tell you that we all have luck in love.

Luck is simply the chance happening of fortune.
The manifestation can seem either good or evil (i.e. desirable or undesirable)...but because Everything happens for the best, it will be good fortune.
You might just not think so at the time.

I guess I say all this because I hate to be the bearer of bad news.
Alot of things are going to happen to you in the realm of relationship...and many of them are going to seem awful.

What will be most difficult is when you feel as though your ego has gotten kicked in the teeth.
It's hard to believe how fortunate that can be because it hurts so much.
It's like having surgery and then having to recover without pain medication.
You need(ed) the surgery...but that doesn't make it feel any better.

Some people are destined to go through life without any major disappointments in the relationship department. That's only because the arena of their growth (and conflict) lies elsewhere.
The Rockefellers and the Valentinos had their difficulties, too.

The ultimate point I'm trying to make is: Don't ever despair. Things will not always go swimmingly for you but that's only because you were meant to grow from the more difficult experiences.
They're meant to make you a more loving person than most.

I guess you could call that lucky.

kristo