February 17, 2002
Stability
age: 32
gender: female
I am single and would like to know if and when I will meet a man I can have a stable relationship with.
March 8th of this year.
There's a real danger however, that your idea of stability may be causing you some problems. It takes 2 people to create stability, and the indications are that you have yet to set appropriate limits and boundaries concerning what you're willing to give in a relationship. It's one thing to know what we want in a relationship...it's actually more appropriate (and useful) to know what we're willing to give.
Up till now, you've been the one to put all of your energy into keeping things together. That creates a definite problem in that your partners have been allowing you to take on that responsibility exclusively.
You meet men all the time, but need time to stabilize and ground yourself. Most men will respond positively to a woman who respects her own boundaries and limits. They are more likely to be inspired by such behavior rather than intimidated, annoyed or bored.
You haven't got much time until the 8th, but it doesn't take much to get grounded. Don't let your desires, hopes and fears intimidate you, and throw away your expectations of self and other. Getting acquainted with yourself is a process that will prove to be a genuine delight. Keep your feet on the Earth. Walk barefoot as soon as weather permits.
kristo