March 4, 1999
I am in love with a man.... He was born on 12/7/1966. I was born 10/6/1969.
I think he is my soul mate.
He stopped calling me after two wonderful months together. It was very
sudden and does not make sense. Was he just using me and does he love
me or what....
10/6/69
The generic chart for 10/6/69, uncorrected for time or place of birth, shows a particularly wonderful Jupiter / Sun conjunction that indicates an awfully fortunate Consciousness. Unfortunately...consciousness doesn't come in a well advertised cereal box. In this chart...as in everyone's...it could come from anywhere. The ONE important, obvious fact here is that once it begins to grow, it is meant to be not only Libran...(i.e. artistic, elegant, beautiful, harmonius, paradoxical and concerned with relationships...between people as well as objects)...it's ALSO meant to be Sagittarian (by way of Jupiter). That means that it is used in the capacity of bestowing benefits and gifts on others. This is not meant to be hidden away or selfishly hoarded. In any case...it must be given freely, and without expectation of reward. This doesn't mean it's to be given in a pointless vacuum. It means that there MUST be, at some point, a living source of that kind of generosity for the giver. Without that...the well is going to run dry awfully quickly. This chart indicates that such a source will always appear. With that in mind...you really don't need to worry about Soul Mates...your's is practically guaranteed... In that context, the question of being used is then simply human, but cosmically irrelevant...except as a stimulus to your personal growth.
The chart for 12/7/66 gives us a clue as to where your growth in Consciousness was stimulated by this relationship. I don't see it as his Libran Moon, although we could certainly talk about that influence. His Saturn, at about 23 degrees of Pisces might be more to the point. It conjuncts your Dragon's Head...the North Node of the Moon. This is the cutting edge of your consciousness. It is what MUST be developed in your life for you to mature and evolve into your complete self. For you to find your own Soul...you must learn the difficult lessons of Pisces. Because they are at the Dragon's Head, they are indeed difficult for you. What are they? Well you can learn about Pisces anywhere...but Intuition and Compassion are the two that come most prominently to my mind. Learning Compassion for yourself is probably the most difficult task faced by ANYONE. As a result of this relationship, Saturn the Teacher was meant to stimulate that difficult, sensitive spot. It's usually a tough lesson from the Master...but what ever form it takes, it's always what Psyche needs most.
Whatever the ultimate fate of this relationship...it seems to have stimulated Consciousness in precisely the right place for Now.
kristo