Tuesday
April 13, 1999
High School
I am an High School sophomore and I'd like to know if the guy I like right now will ever like me..... I have a crush on him and I just learned that he has a girlfriend. Maybe I had a chance before at a party to make out with him but I got so drunk that I ended up with another guy..... (We all play for a soccer team... ) Me with girls and guys with guys... I want to know if it will ever work out with the guy like and if I will be lucky in my love life for at least once... Please I really need your answer!
Hello my name is ***. I'm in High School right now and I play soccer in the school team (I'm a girl) Anyway I had this party on the 26 of march and something happened between me and the goalie of the guys team.... The thing is I think I have a crush on a guy of the team and I want to know if it I will ever have a chance with him. I heard that (the one I like... ) has a girlfriend. I 'd like to know if the goalie will matter in between me and ****..... I really want to know if I will go out with ****.. PLease !!!!
It's not meant to happen before June, but that's not so far off. The important thing to remember is that you're really going to have your wish...genuine pleasure awaits you. Let go of any disappointment that you have now, and free yourself up for what's coming. Don't indulge in any further negativity...you'll just end up acting that out, again. That's the only thing that could stand in the way of this.
kristo
Soul Mates
Sometimes I believe in soul-mates and other times I don't. I certainly
like the idea that there is another half of me out there, but I'm not
sure. What do you believe about soul-mates? And if you do think it's a
real thing, do you think a person HAS to meet theirs or could they walk
the planet and never find them??
This is a great question because it forces me to put my ever swirling beliefs into words. My absolute belief is that soul mates are the Real Thing. Now...there's more to it than that simple statement, however. Because we each have a Soul it's important to realize that whomever we're with is a reflection, not of our Soul, but a reflection of our level of AWARENESS of Soul. It's not so much that the state of our soul changes...our souls are inviolate and whole...it's that our conscious attitude towards soul constantly evolves and changes. If we're damaging ourselves, we don't damage our soul, but we do damage Consciousness. Jung's work (as well as that of many other genuine healers) is meant to heal our Consciousness and therefore get more into a state of harmony with our Soul. Depending on the degree of damage...this requires a greater or lesser amount of very difficult work. Jung calls it the Individuation process, but it's also commonly called Soul healing.
So...when we think of the ideal Soul Mate...we're really thinking of a sort of perfect person, and we imagine a state of bliss which is the equivalent of an experience of our Soul. That's what falling in Love really is...a temporary experience of the Soul. Because no single one of us is fully conscious of Soul (it's an impossibility without all of the prerequisites of canonization) we're forced to do the work of healing the Consciousness we have and constantly attend to the work of Soul. The person who shares our life in an intimate relationship is always a reflection of just how far we've come in that long, slow process. If the relationship is viable and healthy...both partners slowly heal and become more Conscious. If this is simply one-sided, the problem soon becomes obvious. It's incumbent upon each partner to take responsibility for their own Soul, and this is where things usually break down. We humans more often become Conscious kicking and screaming because, given a choice, we'd much rather have someone else do it for us. That's simply human nature.
I guess our partners are in reality, Consciousness-mates. Sounds awful, but that's closer to the reality and experience that we live. Only your own Consciousness can be the true mate of your soul...so that the more conscious you become, the closer you get to experiencing your own Soul. Imagine, then, the kind of mate you would be forced to choose at any stage in the unfolding of this process...it could only be someone who matched your awareness of Soul. A real Soul-Mate.
kristo