Friday
April 16, 1999

Pluto Synastry Problem

4 years ago problems that were sleeping in my marriage woke up and life has been deep and dark ever since.

i am aware that pluto entered sagittarius late 1995 and began a slow transit over my moon and is now on my ascendant.

(08/02/60 3:40 pm Pisa, Italy)

 In the wake of the destruction i met a man (11/28/66 12:30 pm Guayaquil, Equador) who i adore and am repulsed by in almost equal measure.

Our emotional tenor is similar as we are both very sensitive and have almost identical fears(rejection, neglect, abandonment).

The problem is our fears create in us behavior that pushes each other's fear button and ironically create the very result we desperately want to avoid.

What does pluto want us to be?


8/2/60 / Pisa

Saturn will transit his north node in Taurus sometime soon I suppose.
What kind of astrological weather can he expect?


This certainly is typical of the kinds of questions I've been receiving lately. We could all use help with the complex issues of our lives. It's just really more of a coincidence that they're associated with relationship. Relationship is part of the fabric of human nature...and when things get difficult...it's only natural to focus on that sphere. Wherever Pluto strikes, remember, he's the God of Hades / Hell. Psyche is simply giving us the awful push we need to grow. As a material / commercial reminder, I must mention that help doesn't come cheaply. All I can do in an instance like this (when there is more than one, or one very complex question being asked) is to give you some superficial guidance. In depth help takes much time and energy on the part of both querent and myself, so be aware that situations such as this really call for a commitment on the part of everyone involved. Well developed and powerful answers require Time...and Time requires CashFlow. Without sufficient requests for paid services...I won't even be able to continue this venue.

Now...for someone with such a heavy 8th House it's not surprising that Pluto would stimulate a tremendous amount of upheaval. In Jungian terms you're on a Nekyia...a pilgrimage to the depths of the underworld...and it's meant to be dark and difficult down there. With your Leo Stellium, perhaps things had a tendency to be just a bit too sunny and cheerful...now that Pluto is actually Trining your Sun, don't take it so hard. The Trine is a clear indication that the darkness is going to be rejuvenating. The Conjunction with Luna is another clue that part of you is getting buried in order to have a genuine Rebirth. Remember that Pluto is the God that raped little Proserpina (Luna) and took her from Mother, but that she became the absolute Queen of the Dark Realm. Your Intuitive side is now getting a powerful dose of very useful and empowering energy.

 

11/28/66 / Ecuador

HIS Venus / Luna Opposition is going to be transformed by this Pluto passage. Everything about it speaks of a new level of maturity that's meant to be forged...and make no mistake.... When Pluto acts...you are either molded into a newer, darker and richer form... or you're broken. Pluto's workmanship is such that deeper, richer tones are created. (It takes faith to believe this in the midst of the darkness). Maturity is offered and we have only to cooperate. To resist is to end up like the Liberty Bell...cracked.

When Saturn Conjuncts the Dragon's Head this summer and next spring expect another challenge...to become more patient, calm, mature and careful about boundaries. Expect also a challenge to become more vocal and communicative about such issues. A new music and harmony is about to be forged. A new and yet more ancient rhythm is accessed.

This may not seem like such a particularly easy time for your relationship, or for each of you individually...but remember that you are being called to something much more important than the same old ways you're both used to. If you maintain your natural sense of confidence in yourselves and faith in the quality of the time, you'll come out of this quite well. Pluto is not trying to break you.... Trying to force things and impose your own will on the course of events can only spoil the mold...so submit to this awful process that is creating both Maturity and Faith.

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